A research examination of the primary statements in the Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa
Purpose of this page : This page examines the ages of Śrī Rāma and Sītā at the time of their marriage as indicated in the Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa. The aim is to present the primary textual statements clearly, note the numerical tensions that exist within the text, and record the traditional methods by which those tensions have been addressed. This is source-based inquiry, not opinion.
1. The central primary statement (Araṇya Kāṇḍa)
The most direct numerical statement comes from Sītā herself while speaking to Rāvaṇa (who is in disguise) in the Araṇya Kāṇḍa.
Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa, Araṇya Kāṇḍa 3.47.10–11 (standard numbering; slight variation across recensions):
मम भर्ता महातेजा वयसा पञ्चविंशकः |अष्टादश हि वर्षाणि मम जन्मनि गण्यते ||
Transliteration:
mama bhartā mahā-tejā vayasā pañca-viṃśakaḥ |
aṣṭādaśa hi varṣāṇi mama janmani gaṇyate ||Translation (representative):
“My great-resplendent husband was twenty-five years of age at that time, and eighteen years are reckoned from my birth.”
Sītā is referring to the moment they left Ayodhyā for the forest.
In the same narrative sequence she also states that she had lived twelve years in the house of the Ikṣvākus after marriage, enjoying the comforts of human life (see also Sundara Kāṇḍa 5.33.17–18 for the parallel statement to Hanumān).
Immediate implication from these verses alone:
If Sītā was 18 and Rāma was 25 at the start of the exile, and they had already lived 12 years together in Ayodhyā after marriage, then a straightforward arithmetic reading yields:
- Sītā approximately 6 years old at marriage
- Rāma approximately 13 years old at marriage
This is the calculation that has generated the modern controversy.
2. The description of Rāma and Lakṣmaṇa in Mithilā: Bāla Kāṇḍa 1.50.18
पद्मपत्रविशालाक्षौ खड्गतूणीधनुर्धरौ |अश्विनाविव रूपेण समुपस्थितयौवनौ ||
Transliteration:
padma-patra-viśālākṣau khaḍga-tūṇī-dhanurdharau |
aśvināv iva rūpeṇa samupasthita-yauvanau ||Translation (representative):
“They have broad eyes like lotus petals, carry sword, quiver and bow, and in beauty resemble the Aśvins, having reached / just entered youth (samupasthita-yauvanau).”
Janaka is describing the two princes who have arrived with Viśvāmitra.
The compound samupasthita-yauvanau is significant. Standard translations render it as “having reached youth,” “youthfulness in the offing,” or “just entered the prime of youth.” It does not by itself specify a precise numerical age, but it indicates that the princes are no longer children in the ordinary sense.
3. The numerical tension
Putting the primary statements together produces an apparent tension:
- Rāma is described as under 16 (and in some readings around 12) when he leaves with Viśvāmitra.
- Marriage follows relatively soon after the events in Mithilā.
- Sītā later states that at the start of the exile Rāma was 25 and she was 18, after 12 years of married life in Ayodhyā.
A purely arithmetic reading of the exile ages therefore implies very young ages at marriage.
This is the core of the modern debate.
4. Traditional methods of reconciliation
Commentators and traditional scholars have addressed the tension in several ways. The most commonly cited approaches are:
4.1 Counting from the second birth (upanayana), the obvious critical inclusion by traditional scholars vs emission by current textbook readers.
In the dvija traditions, age is sometimes reckoned from the upanayana (the “second birth”) rather than from biological birth.
- For a kṣatriya the upanayana is prescribed around the 11th year (Manusmṛti 2.36 and parallel texts).
- If Kausalyā’s statement of “seventeen years” (Ayodhyā Kāṇḍa) or similar figures are counted from upanayana, the biological age becomes higher.
1.Upanayana as second birth : मातुरग्रेऽधिजननं द्वितीयं मौञ्जिबन्धने । तृतीयं यज्ञदीक्षायां द्विजस्य श्रुतिचोदनात् ॥
“According to the directions of the Veda, the first birth of the twice-born is from the mother; the second after the girdle-tying (upanayana); the third at sacrificial initiation.”
Yājñavalkya and the Dharma-sūtras repeat the same idea: the boy becomes a dvija only after upanayana. The teacher is regarded as the father of this second birth and Sāvitrī as the mother. This is not poetic language; it is the operative social and ritual status.
2. Prescribed ages Gṛhya-sūtras and Manu (2.36, 2.38) give the standard windows:
Brāhmaṇa: ideally 8th year (from conception or birth; variation exists).
Kṣatriya: 11th year.
Vaiśya: 12th year.
Upper limits are 16 / 22 / 24. After those limits the person becomes a vrātya and loses eligibility for many rites until purification. For a Kṣatriya prince such as Rāma the expected age of upanayana is therefore around eleven.
3. Why age is routinely counted from upanayana Once the second birth has occurred, the educational and social clock restarts. The preceding biological years are treated as preparatory childhood. The years that matter for readiness for study under a guru, for the obligations of brahmacarya, and later for marriage eligibility are counted from the thread ceremony. Traditional commentators therefore read statements such as Kausalyā’s “seventeen years” (daśa sapta ca varṣāṇi) as years elapsed after the second birth. Adding a typical Kṣatriya upanayana age of roughly eight yields the twenty-five years at the time of exile. This is not an ad-hoc fix; it is the culturally default method of reckoning for a dvija.
4. Cultural and educational consequences After upanayana the boy is sent for intensive training (palace teachers or a guru’s āśrama). Parents of a girl of corresponding status look for a groom who has completed this stage and has begun proper discipline. The urgency around finding a suitable match is tied to the completion of this rite on the boy’s side. For the learned classes of the period the distinction between biological age and post-upanayana age was obvious and did not need constant explanation.
5. Application to the Rāmāyaṇa The raw arithmetic from Sītā’s statements (Rāma 25, Sītā 18, twelve years of married life) remains visible in the text and produces younger marriage ages. The traditional reconciliation that reads Kausalyā’s seventeen years from the second birth, and that takes Daśaratha’s “less than sixteen” as a statement about military fitness rather than a precise chronological count, is the method that was natural to the culture of the text and to later Brahminical readers. Both data sets are present; the upanayana reading is the culturally primary way of harmonising them.
This method is used by several traditional commentators to raise the ages at marriage into the mid-to-late teens or early twenties. Traditional readers of the text treat the upanayana as the second birth that restarts the social and educational clock (Manu 2.169). Kausalyā’s seventeen years are therefore commonly counted from that point. This is the culturally primary reconciliation, not an optional footnote. The raw arithmetic from Sītā’s own statements remains visible in the text; both must be recorded.
4.2 Recensional variation and possible later additions
The critical edition of the Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa and the study of regional recensions show that certain numerical statements are not uniform across all manuscripts. Some scholars treat the precise age figures in the Araṇya Kāṇḍa as belonging to layers that may be later than the core narrative.
This does not mean the verses are to be discarded; it means they must be weighed carefully against the rest of the text.
4.3 Narrative and symbolic reading
Some traditional readings emphasise that the Rāmāyaṇa is not a modern historical chronicle with forensic chronological precision. Ages can carry symbolic or dharmic weight (youth, readiness for responsibility, the ideal of the gṛhastha stage) rather than functioning as exact biographical data.
5. Ayurvedic and Dharmaśāstra references sometimes cited
Sushruta Saṃhitā
A statement often quoted in online discussions appears in the context of the development of the body. One commonly referenced passage (Sūtrasthāna, chapter on age stages) discusses childhood extending to the 16th year and middle age thereafter, with full maturity of the tissues described around the mid-twenties for men and earlier for women in some translations.
It is important to note that this is a medical description of physiological development, not a direct prescription of minimum marriage age in the Rāmāyaṇa narrative. It can be used as supporting cultural context, but it does not by itself settle the textual ages in the epic.
Devi Sita reached marriageable age and after that many kings came and failed and King Janak was very worried about her marriage, so according to this age of Mata Sita is inferred to be 18- 19 years.
But where this 6 years one come from? – Let’s see
उषित्वा द्वादश समा इक्ष्वाकूणां निवेशने भुञ्जाना मानुषान् भोगान् सर्वकामसमृद्धिनी । मम भर्त्ता महातेजा वयसा पञ्चविंशक: अष्टादश हि वर्षाणि मम जन्मनि गण्यते ।
These 2 shlokas are from Aranya Kanda here Sita mata says, I lived in Ayodhya for 12 years and when we left I was 18 years of age and my husband was 25. This is from where 6 years of age is derived. So, let’s solve this confusion, but first let’s take few more examples that are considered as contradictions.
When Shri Ram was leaving Ayodhya his mother said – “You are 17 years old” (2/20/45) So was he 25 or 17 while leaving? Let’s continue.
When king Dashrath was telling Rishi Vishwamitra about Shree Ram he says “My son is not even 16 years old”(between 15 and 16) So 16 years old Ram went with Rishi to his Ashram, learned vidya, went to Mithila, married, and returned lived for 12 years in Ayodhya and his age was 17?
Here we have a clear contradiction in ages, this can be resolved simply, the age of Dvijas is calculated from the time of their thread ceremony too, this was common sense to people of that time and in any learned families of Vedic background. This thread ceremony is called Second birth and is referenced in many many scripts across time. So 17 years mentioned there while leaving Ayodhya is actually the years passed after his thread ceremony.
If we take his age as 25 years while leaving then it contradicts other with the age of Bal Kanda because then he would be below 13 and not just below 16 as mentioned in Bal Kanda Hence the shloka of Aryana Kanda where the age of Sri Ram is said as 25 years while leaving is later interpolation.
Some people don’t understand Sanskrit and depend on English translations, this leads to misconceptions. It’s written there in Sushruta Samhita- At age of 25, a man and age of 16 a woman is fully developed ( That’s what युवावस्था is).
The word used was समुपस्थितयौवनौ meaning he had reached Youth hence he was about 25 years old at the time of marriage.
Some claim समुपस्थितयौवनौ means approaching youth. सम- completely, उप- Near, स्थित्-Is situated It means Youth has been reached, complete Youth. And that happens at age of 25
Manusmṛti and related texts
Manusmṛti 4.1 and the prescriptions for the stages of life (āśrama) indicate that the householder stage properly begins after the period of study. The ideal of marrying after the student phase is clear. Exact numerical minimum ages vary across texts and periods.
These references help reconstruct the broader cultural expectation of the period in which the epic was received, but they remain secondary to the statements inside the Rāmāyaṇa itself.
Manusmiriti 4/1 चतुर्थं आयुषो भागं उषित्वाद्यं गुरौ द्विजाः ।द्वितीयं आयुषो भागं कृतदारो गृहे वसेत् ।।4/1 It says a person should marry in the second stage of life after (1/4 th of age) that age is 25 years because Vedas take age as 100 years. (जीवेत शरदः शतम् ,आयुष्टे शरदः शतम्)
Upnayan of Kshatriya is done at 11 years of age गर्भाष्टमेऽब्दे कुर्वीत ब्राह्मणस्योपनायनम् ।गर्भादेकादशे राज्ञो गर्भात्तु द्वादशे विशः ।2/36
6. What can be stated with reasonable confidence
From the primary text of the Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa:
- Sītā explicitly states that at the beginning of the forest exile Rāma was 25 and she was 18.
- She also states that she had already lived 12 years in Ayodhyā after marriage.
- Rāma is described as under 16 (and in some readings around 12) when he first leaves Ayodhyā with Viśvāmitra.
- At the time of the marriage in Mithilā, Rāma and Lakṣmaṇa are described with the phrase samupasthita-yauvanau — having reached or entered youth.
A strictly arithmetic reading of points 1 and 2 produces young ages at marriage. Traditional commentators have long recognised the tension and have offered methods (especially second-birth counting) to reconcile the figures with the broader dharmic expectation that marriage occurs after the attainment of youth and the completion of the student phase.
The text itself does not contain a single, unambiguous sentence that states “Rāma was X years old and Sītā was Y years old on the day of their wedding.” All numerical reconstructions are therefore inferences.
7. Closing note
The Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa gives us clear statements about the ages at the start of the exile and clear indications of relative youth at the time of the journey to Mithilā. Between those two anchors lies a span of years whose exact distribution is not stated with forensic precision.
A research approach records the primary verses, notes the arithmetic tension, and presents the traditional methods of resolution without forcing a single modern conclusion onto the text.
Readers are invited to examine the Sanskrit themselves and to weigh the commentarial traditions.
As we say Vedas are source of All Dharma- तमस्मेरा युवतयो युवानं मर्मृज्यमानाः परि यन्त्यापः । स शुक्रेभिः शिक्वभी रेवदस्मे दीदायानिध्मो घृतनिर्णिगप्सु.. Rigveda 2/35/4 It says a Woman In Youth Marries a Man in his youth No child marriages in Hinduism
कियती योषा मर्यतो वधूयोः परिप्रीता पन्यसा वार्येण । भद्रा वधूर्भवति यत्सुपेशाः स्वयं सा मित्रं वनुते जने चित्॥१२॥ – ऋग्वेदः 10/27/12 It says a woman herself chooses her Husband. (A young woman chooses Young Husband ref prev.)
This Evidence is enough to prove there was no Child marriage in Hinduism and Mata Sita was more than 16 when she married.
One more thing, someone may wonder whether Vedas were strictly followed at that time. Yes, they were followed. Sri Ram himself says that – when he met Hanuman he says Hanuma definitely knows Rigveda, Yajurveda, and Samveda.
Here I would like to quote from Manusmriti which will shatter the biggest myth of Hindusim supporting child marriage, for everyone who has doubts, gather as much attention as you can and see the below screenshot.
Also, the bride was supposed to have compulsorily received initiation in their respective Dwija Dharma (Shiksha-Diksha) and then only marriage was done.
The below S.C also is big proof that Monogamy is considered the most ideal form of marriage in Hinduism.
The above screenshot is clear-cut proof that pre-puberty marriages were never a part of Hinduism.
Note: Images are from Google Images (unless specified)
Primary sources consulted
- Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa (Bāla Kāṇḍa 1.20, 1.50; Araṇya Kāṇḍa 3.47; Sundara Kāṇḍa 5.33)
- Standard critical and traditional editions and translations
- Sushruta Saṃhitā, Sūtrasthāna (age stages)
- Manusmṛti (relevant āśrama and upanayana passages)
This page is part of the research portal Sanatana Dhara. It is offered for study, not as a final verdict.
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Thank you for the information.
Also, there is one typo, Sanskrit is typed as ‘Samskrit’, please correct.
Jai Shri Ram 🙏
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Thank you for this valuable knowledge sir… Jay shree ram🙏🙏
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Wow ..thank you very much with themis hindu bbs muslim controversy ..I had this question in my mind for a long time. I started questioning my parents and elders but they failed and a lot of website shows that mata sita was 6 and ram bhagwan was 15 or so . But your explanation cleared all my doubts
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Same. Jay sitaram
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VALMIKI RAMAYANA, ARANYA KANDA 3 SARGA 47 VERSES 3-5 (Sita 5 saal ki thi jab unki shaadi hue thi )
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What the verses actually say (standard numbering):
3.47.3–5: Sītā identifies herself as Janaka’s daughter and Rāma’s wife, then states that she lived for twelve years in the house of the Ikṣvākus enjoying all human pleasures. In the thirteenth year Daśaratha began preparations for Rāma’s consecration.
The explicit age statement (Rāma twenty-five, Sītā eighteen) comes a few verses later, usually numbered 3.47.10:
मम भर्ता महातेजा वयसा पञ्चविंशकः ।
अष्टादश हि वर्षाणि मम जन्मनि गण्यते ॥
These verses appear in the great majority of traditional northern and southern manuscripts and in the standard printed editions used by traditional scholars and commentators (Gita Press, etc.).
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explain kroge bhai🙂I’m still confused
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do you know when laxman married urmila ? at the same day and together when ram and seeta getting marrige. and urmila was little sister of sita so now lets calculate or guess the age diffrence
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Google’s data or qoura data over hindusim are always found false i don’t who is writing without knowledge of epics to bais the future hindu generations ,in india these sites will be banned 🚫
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Thank you for this great information…
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Thank you for this valuable information sir
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Thank you. Please visit other articles on the site when possible. Pranam
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Somewhere it is written that while giving her introduction to Ravana, Mata Sita said that she stayed one year in Ayodhya after marriage, is not correct. Refer 3/47/4 of Valmiki Ramayan. This refers to twelve years stay in Palace of Ayodhya before going to Van.
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plz make a article on why manusmriti says to eat non veg…sm muslim ppl argue abt this
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Sanatan dharma do not prohibit non veg. It doesn’t matter, it’s your choice.
Don’t be apologetic.
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It is quite probable that Sita Mata was 16 and probably going to 17 or 18 that caused Janaka worried
Another part where I read both Sita and Mandodari were older than their respective husbands please clarify on this
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Guys there is a lot of misconception about Skanda purana Book 3 chapter 30 shlok 8 and 9 where it mentions that Bhagwan Ram was 15 year old and Maa Sita was 6
īśvarasya dhanurbhagnaṃ janakasya gṛhe sthitam |
rāmaḥ paṃcadaśe varṣe ṣaḍvarṣāṃ caiva maithilīm || 8 ||
The chapter is called Rama’s life
Help and throw some light over this because when I tried to find about this verse in Skanda purana Geeta press it is really hard to find because numbering system in Geeta press is different and whole skanda purana is as it is not divided in different books
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What the verses actually say (standard numbering):
3.47.3–5: Sītā identifies herself as Janaka’s daughter and Rāma’s wife, then states that she lived for twelve years in the house of the Ikṣvākus enjoying all human pleasures. In the thirteenth year Daśaratha began preparations for Rāma’s consecration.
The explicit age statement (Rāma twenty-five, Sītā eighteen) comes a few verses later, usually numbered 3.47.10:
मम भर्ता महातेजा वयसा पञ्चविंशकः ।
अष्टादश हि वर्षाणि मम जन्मनि गण्यते ॥
These verses appear in the great majority of traditional northern and southern manuscripts and in the standard printed editions used by traditional scholars and commentators (Gita Press, etc.).
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Guys there is a lot of misconception about Skanda purana Book 3 chapter 30 shlok 8 and 9 where it mentions that Bhagwan Ram was 15 year old and Maa Sita was 6.
Here is that Shloka
īśvarasya dhanurbhagnaṃ janakasya gṛhe sthitam |
rāmaḥ paṃcadaśe varṣe ṣaḍvarṣāṃ caiva maithilīm || 8 ||
Finding this in Skanda puran is really difficult for me because Gorakhpur Skanda purana is only One whole puran itself and is not divided in parts that’s why the numbering is pretty off
Help and throw some light over this
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This shloka does not mention Prabhu shri ram’s age it only mentions Mata Sita age according to me 6 years mentioned there is 6 years after dvijas thread ceremony ie Prabhu shri ram married Mata Sita when she was 17-18 because kshatriya dvijas happens between ages 11-12
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Thank you for this 🙏🙏 . Muslim people are defame our texts we need more people like you who can aware this generation.
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VALMIKI RAMAYANA, ARANYA KANDA 3 SARGA 47 VERSES 3-5 (Sita 5 saal ki thi jab unki shaadi hue thi )
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Thnxx For sharing authantic knowledge.. please keep it up.
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Thanks for this valuable knowledge . ❤️❤️🚩
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Sir I would suggest that u would put signs of your website’s in front of any big darbars that happen like baba bageshwar ka darbar so that more and more people know about it because many Muslims and Christian spread false information about sanatan dharm so plzz think about it
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Considering the life span of a human to be of hundred years, varna ashram is divided into 4 parts, which means up to 25 years brahmacharya should be practiced. Thus he could not have married before that age. Sages like guru vashist would not have allowed it
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Thank you so much for clearing my doubts.🙏🙏
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How can I support you ?
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Bro,I have a deep request from you.Please you made a article in which all fault and wrong about hindusim that nowadays muslim and other ppl used.Please make it,that what ppl criticize about hindusim and then make a valueable answer that we hindus know and say them.Thank You
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Thank you so much for this valuable information. Several times Muslim people argue that your religion promote child marriage, it is because they believe on Google search. They don’t read authentic scripture. Please, publish more articles on topic like these🙏.
And a request, please post these information on YouTube too.
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Thank you so much sir
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Thank you sir .it is very important for me because I had many confusion in my mind about Ram Sita marriage age. Now I am clear about that.
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thank u so much!!! i have no words!!!
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Thank you very much for your valuable information. Now a days Muslim Moulana spread false information about Ma Sita’s marriage age.
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You done a good research but theirs a mistake you made in one of the proof where you said that “When Shri Ram was leaving Ayodhya his mother said – “You are 17 years old” ” but its 17 years from his upnayana (that is 10 years for every shatriya) so he was 17 + 10 = 27 years old
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It is most likely Sita was above or around 16-18 as some parts comment 3-4 years after puberty and considering puberty was 11 years to 12 Janaka was worried she is past 16-18
Sita spent Vanavasa 14 years
After marriage she could not stayed in Ayodhya for 2 to 3 years
She must have left Ayodhya at about 18 and returned 32 after Completing 14 years per scripture
It also mentions she got Pattabhiskeha by 32 and Sri Rsm was 39
She again went to Valmiki Ashram around 34 years to have Lava and Kusha
Please clarify
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Thanks, please send your evidences to Jaipur Dialogues. That team will help clear this myth to everyone, especially Muslims who are spreading this fake story to hide their 6 year old marriage history.
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Great Information
Jai Shree Ram
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thank you so much for the info there is this vedkabhed website in google which talks nonsense about our vedas and gods kindly try debunking those too
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ஜய் ஶ்ரீ ராம்
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I heard some where that Seetha elder than Raama. Is it true, would you please clarify on this?
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wanted to know age difference between Lord Rama, Lakshman and Sita
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Jai Shree Ram !!!
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What was God Shree hanuman’s age when Jamuvanta helps him regain the consciousness of his power and abilities.
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Merely playing with words and distorting the precise numbers mentioned in the scriptures—a futile effort.
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Kindly elaborate !!!
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During the argument, Sita told him about her age in below Sloka,
In AranyaKanda, Chapter/Sarge 47, Sloka # 10
मम भर्ता महातेजा वयसा पंच विंशकः || ३-४७-१०
अष्टा दश हि वर्षाणि मम जन्मनि गण्यते |
Sita said — “Mama Bhartha Mahateja Vayasa Pancha Vimshaka,” meaning my great warrior husband is 25 years of age,
“Ashta Dasha varshani mama Janmanti ganyati” — I was 18 years then.
And they came to the forest when she was 18 and Rama was 25.
It means that Sita was seven years younger than Ram.
Also, in Sundarakanda, in conversation with Swamy Hanuma, Sita said she enjoyed all kinds of luxuries after marriage for 12 years.
Sundarakanda, Chapter/Sarga 33, Sloka # 17
समा द्वादश तत्र अहम् राघवस्य निवेशने || ५-३३-१७
भुन्जाना मानुषान् भोगान् सर्व काम समृद्धिनी |
In the above sloka, Dwadasha means 12 years. Sita told Hanuma that she stayed in Ayodhya for 12 years after marriage. From the above two slokas, we can infer that Sita Devi was six years and Ram was 13 years old when they got married. After 12 years, when they were 18 and 25, they had to go to the forest. After 14 years in the forest, they came back to Ayodhya.
Ram was almost 40 years, and Sita was 33 years.
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try to give justification only due to being of impure minds themselves Shri Sita was taken care of as a child by her in laws.. their age is mentioned in valmiki ramayana that is the shreshta vakya.. he was 11.5 she was 5.5 of age and devi herself very clearly tells to Shri Ram one time saying we got married in our balya avastha. They were married for 12 years [13th just started] and at that time shri rama had just turned 25 and devi was 18 going to turn 19 within a month. Valmiki Ramayana doesn’t give different ages at all.
When raja dasharatha says Shri rama is less than 16 he is saying that not due to shri rama being 15 he is saying that because 16 was the age when a kshatriya was seen as fit to fight war so he is pleading yo rushi Vishvāmitra that pls my young son is not ready yet.
When devi kausalya says 17 years after your second birth we have to understand that kshatriyas are also dwijas meaning twice born meaning after the janeu sanskara a person is born again
So 8+17= 25 the age he was when devi kausalya was speaking to him. It was the day he was sent to the vanavasa.
Devi sita speaks of the vanavasa 2 times one in aranya Kanda and one in Sundara KandaBoth times she says he was 25 and she had completed 18 [19] when they were sent to the vanam and they had been married for 12 years before that. Mareecha when speaking to vanara says that Shri rama when he fought him was just less that 12 years old [meaning 11 here] this was just about 2 months before his marriage to devi sita.
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The primary text does present the numerical statements you cite.
Sītā states (Araṇya Kāṇḍa) that at the start of the exile Rāma was twenty-five and she was eighteen, and that she had already lived twelve years in the house of the Ikṣvākus after marriage. The straightforward arithmetic from those verses yields marriage ages of approximately thirteen for Rāma and six for Sītā. Mārīca’s reference to a very young Rāma at the time of the earlier confrontation is also present in the text.
Traditional commentators have long tried to hold the various age references together. One common method is to read Daśaratha’s “less than sixteen” (ūna-ṣoḍaśa-varṣaḥ) as referring to the conventional age of military fitness rather than a precise chronological count. Another is to take Kausalyā’s statement of seventeen years as counted from the upanayana (the “second birth”), so that eight + seventeen produces twenty-five at the time of exile. These are established interpretive moves within the tradition.
However, the page does not treat any single reconstructed chronology as final or beyond question. The Vālmīki Rāmāyaṇa itself places the different age statements in the narrative without an explicit authorial reconciliation. That is why the research page records both the arithmetic reading and the traditional attempts to harmonise the numbers, rather than declaring one set of ages as the only correct one.
If there is a specific verse in which Sītā herself says they were married in bālya-avasthā, please cite the exact location (kāṇḍa, sarga, and verse). The statements currently used on the page are the ones in which she gives the ages at exile and the twelve years of married life in Ayodhyā.
The text remains the authority. Any consistent chronology is an interpretation built on top of it.
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thankyou very much sir , nowadays many people don’t even know one word of sanksrit and they act as if they know everything and insult our itihaas , I strongly support you sir keep it up 👍🚩🙏
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“If we take his age as 25 years while leaving then it contradicts other with the age of Bal Kanda because then he would be below 13 and not just below 16 as mentioned in Bal Kanda Hence the shloka of Aryana Kanda where the age of Sri Ram is said as 25 years while leaving is later interpolation”.. what is the meaning of this passage atleast do you understand this yourself?
Comment by devil hacker raises a valid point. Two calculations are possible :
Assuming 11 yrs – upanayana + 17 acc to kausalya = 28
Assuming ~13-14 yrs when he left with vishwamitra (coz not even 16 doesn’t necessarily imply 15), married, lived with sita for 12 yrs in Ayodhya. 13/14+12≈25/26 acc to seeta..
Two of your own presented evidences from RAMAYANA validate this age range ; what proof are you providing for saying he was 25 while marrying? sushrutha samhita? Text written by rishi in kaliyuga for proving valid age for marriage in tretayuga?? Manusmriti? Is manusmriti vedic text??
Vedas mention “man in youth”, how do you say youth => 25 in tretayuga?
Why can’t we interpret that rama and sita are not mere humans, they are avataras in tretayuga.. their childhood & maturity would not be same as humans in kaliyuga. I’m not some random muslim using this to project as child marriage, I view it in this angle to say sita – rama being 6 yrs-14 yrs of age in tretayuga ≠ children of the same age in kaliyuga. I’m matured enough to know Hindu dharma didn’t promote child marriage for humans and your proofs are for that, not for rama-sita.
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The numerical tension you point out is real and has been noted by commentators for centuries. Bāla Kāṇḍa states that Rāma was less than sixteen when he left with Viśvāmitra. Araṇya Kāṇḍa has Sītā state that Rāma was twenty-five and she was eighteen at the start of the exile, after twelve years of married life in Ayodhyā. The straightforward arithmetic from the second set of verses produces younger marriage ages.
Calling the twenty-five-year statement a “later interpolation” is one possible scholarly position, but it is not settled. Manuscript variation exists; the Critical Edition notes instability in some age references. The reverse claim (that the younger ages are secondary) is also made. Neither side has decisive manuscript proof that simply removes the other set of statements.
Our page does not claim Rāma was twenty-five at marriage. The arithmetic that yields the younger ages comes directly from the exile-age verses themselves. Traditional reconciliations (counting from upanayana, different readings of “less than sixteen,” etc.) attempt to hold both sets of statements together. The avatāra-maturity argument is a further interpretive layer, not a solution to the numbers.
The primary text itself presents both data points. A research approach records the tension rather than declaring one verse interpolated by assertion.
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I wish you write down what to be said as a reply comment to them in a short form. Because I am from Tamilnadu State, I don’t know Hindi, Sanskrit and anything much about our Hinduism too. So its still bit confusing for me to understand everything u stated above. I am gonna re read it again to understand further. I don’t think so everyone gonna do the same. So you yourself write a short reply comment to them. Many would copy paste it to give a slipper slap reply to them in those same comment section to give a counter attack perfectly.
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This is utter nonsense. The shamelessness which author has showed is appalling. “Hinduism has no child marriage” -_- is one of the most shameless things one Hindu has said. I love my religion (Hinduism). I do not judge the past based on modern standards. But using lies to defend our great religion is shamelessness. The story of ratnavati in skanda puran is enough to show that child marriages were frequent at that time.
But coming to the contents here… author claims others do not sanskrit. But who are you? are you phd in sanskrit?
and the clearly wrong translations he has shown is also insult to our religion.
दश सप्त च वर्षाणि तव जातस्य राघव | असितानि प्रकान्क्षन्त्या मया दुह्ख परिक्षयम् || २-२०-४५(2/20/45)
is actually “Oh,Rama! I have been waiting for seventeen years after your second birth of thread ceremony, with the hope that my troubles will disappear at one time or the other.”
Regarding the verse 1-20-2 … ऊनषोडशवर्षो मे रामो राजीवलोचनः | न युद्धयोग्यतामस्य पश्यामि सह राक्षसैः || १-२०-२
here uunaSoDashavarSaH = is less than sixteen years [of age]
It is written on valmiki ramayan website that
This particular statement uunaSoDashavarSaH less than sixteen years, has evoked a spate of commentaries in deciding the age of Rama at this juncture of going along with Sage Viswamitra, i.e., at the time of his marrying Seeta and at the time of his exile to forests etc. His age is said to be twelve years as of now. And this is confirmed by Mareecha while advising Ravana, that ‘as a boy of twelve Rama, killed my mother and brother, and hit me out’ as at 3-38-6, uunadvaadashavarSaH Or, baalo dvaadashavarSo ayam as per other versions of the same verse
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Traditional readers of the text treat the upanayana as the second birth that restarts the social and educational clock (Manu 2.169). Kausalyā’s seventeen years are therefore commonly counted from that point. This is the culturally primary reconciliation, not an optional footnote. The raw arithmetic from Sītā’s own statements remains visible in the text; both must be recorded.
मातुरग्रेऽधिजननं द्वितीयं मौञ्जिबन्धने ।
तृतीयं यज्ञदीक्षायां द्विजस्य श्रुतिचोदनात् ॥
“According to the directions of the Veda, the first birth of the twice-born is from the mother; the second after the girdle-tying (upanayana); the third at sacrificial initiation.”
Yājñavalkya and the Dharma-sūtras repeat the same idea: the boy becomes a dvija only after upanayana. The teacher is regarded as the father of this second birth and Sāvitrī as the mother. This is not poetic language; it is the operative social and ritual status.
2. Prescribed ages
Gṛhya-sūtras and Manu (2.36, 2.38) give the standard windows:
Brāhmaṇa: ideally 8th year (from conception or birth; variation exists).
Kṣatriya: 11th year.
Vaiśya: 12th year.
Upper limits are 16 / 22 / 24. After those limits the person becomes a vrātya and loses eligibility for many rites until purification. For a Kṣatriya prince such as Rāma the expected age of upanayana is therefore around eleven.
3. Why age is routinely counted from upanayana
Once the second birth has occurred, the educational and social clock restarts. The preceding biological years are treated as preparatory childhood. The years that matter for readiness for study under a guru, for the obligations of brahmacarya, and later for marriage eligibility are counted from the thread ceremony. Traditional commentators therefore read statements such as Kausalyā’s “seventeen years” (daśa sapta ca varṣāṇi) as years elapsed after the second birth. Adding a typical Kṣatriya upanayana age of roughly eight yields the twenty-five years at the time of exile. This is not an ad-hoc fix; it is the culturally default method of reckoning for a dvija.
4. Cultural and educational consequences
After upanayana the boy is sent for intensive training (palace teachers or a guru’s āśrama). Parents of a girl of corresponding status look for a groom who has completed this stage and has begun proper discipline. The urgency around finding a suitable match is tied to the completion of this rite on the boy’s side. For the learned classes of the period the distinction between biological age and post-upanayana age was obvious and did not need constant explanation.
5. Application to the Rāmāyaṇa
The raw arithmetic from Sītā’s statements (Rāma 25, Sītā 18, twelve years of married life) remains visible in the text and produces younger marriage ages. The traditional reconciliation that reads Kausalyā’s seventeen years from the second birth, and that takes Daśaratha’s “less than sixteen” as a statement about military fitness rather than a precise chronological count, is the method that was natural to the culture of the text and to later Brahminical readers. Both data sets are present; the upanayana reading is the culturally primary way of harmonizing them.
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